Sunday, May 12, 2019

HOW TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE.


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How to be successful in life


To be successful in your life you have to be a solid determined to your aim and your result from your effort to achieve that aim is going to be your success.

We got feed by information and beliefs from our culture in society from the beginning of our life and we built a perception from that information, if you going to run behind success you built from your information then it may not be worth to run behind that success, you may feel disappoint even after achieving it, by thinking “I have achieved what I wanted to achieve, then why there is lack of contentment in my life”, well that because it’s not what your true essence wants from you, your soul might get overlap by different kind of approach and thinking which was not a true flavor of you.

Culture is not a bad thing on its own, culture teaches us many valuable things but in every environment, there is positivity and negativity if you adopt the negative one then it’s going to be bad for you.

So what is a success, to be a successful means not only having wealth, fame, social status but also to have happiness and contentment in life?

It’s a fact; success is defined by wealth, fame and social status in our society, although it was a small part of this life. I don’t consider myself successful at this stage, but I follow lots of successful people, I have seen their hundred’s of interviews, I read books, I am on my journey to becoming successful, many people find boring to study books and see those hours of long interviews, this article is for them, in which I am going to share what I got from those 3 years of learning, the most valuable thing I achieved from 3 years of learning is an attitude which is unshakeable.

If 100‘s of people sit and try to convince me that I can’t be successful like those ultra rich people, which are only a few in 7.7 billion world population they were not able to demotivate me to put on my work on what I believe and for me, that’s a true success.

1. Wealth

Wealth is a valuable possession to earn wealth you need to put value in people’s life; you have to solve a problem with the help of your acquired skill in a certain area or industry and you need to be best and the problem you pick to solve must be important on which people and corporate wish to spend their money. So to earn wealth you need to focus on the specific area you are good at it, and most importantly you should love the work you do otherwise you are going to give up in two or three failures.

2. Fame

Fame is when you going to be famous among the masses, it could only happen if you have done something above the average. And you can also get famous by achieving notable achievements like winning gold medals in Olympic, winning the Oscars for acting, music, etc. It could be anything if you have talent, nothing can stop you to be famous.

3. Social Status.

To gain social status you need to be a philanthropist, after accumulate wealth having fame you can spend your money on the welfare of others in your society or around the world. Always remember the true happiness a person’s feels by helping another one in need.


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Power of focus and belief to be successful in life


A girl who got paralyzed due to pneumonia and scarlet fever, doctors said that she can never walk on her feet.
She wanted to be the fastest runner in the world.

Her mother always motivates her that she can do whatever she wishes to, because of her mother consistent motivation she began to believe that its really going to happen if she wishes to, slowly she started walking without taking the support of anything she fell lots of time but she never gives up.

She focuses all her energy to conquer her dream, she met a man named Ed Temple, and Temple was Head Women's Track and Field Coach at Nashville's Tennessee State University, she told about her dream to the coach and coach said “If you want to became fastest runner in the word nobody can stop you, and I am going to help you”,.

She started running and practicing and she began to take part in college races she fails much time to win the rest, and the times comes when she started winning.

Then at the time of 1960 Olympics she compete against Jutta Heine who got never defeated in her carrier, but guess what she got defeated by that girl in 100m,200m and 400m relay race, who was said, that she can never walk in her life by the doctors, she won three gold medals and made history, that legendary woman is Wilma Rudolph.

 These all became possible due to her focus and belief, so start believing and learn to focus.


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You need to have a vision


You need to have the vision to achieve success in life, the vision of where you wanted to see yourself in the next 5 yrs or 10 yrs.

If you expect to achieve your goal, if you expect to reach your potential, if you expect to have your dreams come true, you must become master at visualization, visualization is an extraordinarily powerful skill, your brain has a “reticular activating system”, it is a network of neurons, it basically works as a filter system of your brain which allows certain information in your brain and it blocks out other information.

And the interesting thing is you programmed that filter by yourself unconsciously and it works by confirming your thinking by searching evidence of your thought if you think a certain person doesn’t like you the system is going to search for evidence during the conservation between you and that person.

We are confirmation bias people means our mind loves to read things you agree with, why we have that reticular activating system, there is a really important reason why you have this, if your brain letting in every information you pass by in a book or in a web page in our daily life with how much data and information we get exposed to in a physical and digital form.

 If your brain took in everything at equal value, your head would literally be going to explode and so the reticular activating system protects your brain by filtering information and only letting in stuff that your brain agrees with.

So that’s the scientific reason and mandate for why you got to get busy programming that thing. 

Now, I am going to talk about how we use can use visualization, in order to start to reprogram the reticular activating system in your brain to spot opportunity, your starts to spot evidence, that things are working out, your starts to spot coincidences so you can build momentum, and it begins with visualization, so if you take your goals and write down it in a diary and you have to make visualization of achieving that goal in a period of time you want to achieve it.

There is a particular way to do it if your goals are to improve your self- worth; I want you to visualize what your life looks like and how you’re going to feel about yourself when your self-worth has improved.

There are two things you have to when it comes to visualization, you have to close your eyes and have a specific picture of what it looks like in your life when your self-worth has improved, you are going to see yourself speaking up at work, and you are going to see yourself talking more about business.

Step 2 is to think consciously about your positive emotion you are going to feel like I am going to feel happy, I am going to feel proud, I am going to be so grateful that I made the change you have to mirror the specific picture.

By doing these you are training your brain to have a totally different filter, our brain doesn’t know the difference between something bad that actually happened to us and a good thing we are creating by visualization.

The visualization which you are practicing is going to be encoded in your brain as a real memory that’s why it changes the filter system.

It’s based on scientific research the more you visualize thing, the greater your confidence going to be, you going to feel a great feeling of security, the more you do this with your goals there is also proof by research that visualization actually improves your skills.

We human being need tools, because of tools we are dominating creature.

What life throws at you is not your choice what you make out of it is 100% your choice. So find that tool what fit’s in your goal, to make it happen.

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Saturday, May 11, 2019

How to become Rich

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How to become Rich


There is nobody in the world that can provide you a blueprint of how to become rich; it’s a self-exploring process of providing value and solution to certain things or problem for which you get the reward.

 Yes, there are approaches by which you can get inspired or unlock your dimension’s of the brain, which going to help you to face a different situation in your journey of becoming rich. So let’s discuss some of the great approaches inspired by great sources.


The approach of Early Wealthiest


Napoleon Hill was a journalist and a writer, who got a chance to interview the richest man of his time whose name, was Andrew Carnegie. 

During the interview, Andrew Carnegie said to Napoleon Hill that many people are going to fail in their life in the process of becoming successful, but the reality is the formula of becoming successful is universal, means everybody has an equal chance and opportunity to become successful. 

So Andrew Carnegie offered a deal to Napoleon Hill to write a book on the philosophy of rich people by interviewing them, which Andrew Carnegie is going to arrange for the author and he only gave the traveling expenses of his journey to doing the work. 

Napoleon Hill writes a book after 20-30 years of research on 500 most successful people in the world whose name is Think and Grow Rich.

In that book author is speaking about burning desire, any dream no matter how big is it you can achieve it if you have a burning desire, don’t wish anything have belief and faith in yourself that you can achieve it.

If you want to earn money you need to fix the amount, how much money you want to make and make a strong commitment that you going to earn that much on that time no matter what happens.

Determine exactly what you going to provide or give in return for the money you desire to earn from your customer and decide what you going to sacrifice in order to earn that amount of money, the sacrifice could be anything your sleep, your leisure time, etc.

Make a definitive plan of what you going to do to reach that success level.

Write down everything, in fact, I am going to suggest you write a journal, which is the most effective way to remind yourself about your goal.

Acquire more specific knowledge in a specific field rather than filling up your mind with facts and figures or general knowledge which only going to help you in showing off how intelligent you are, but the reality is you are making fool of yourself by thinking of that as intelligence.

Spend most of your time with positive and successful people, because you are what your brain consumed mostly.


The power of perception to become rich


Author Robert Kiyosaki has two dad, one is his biological father and another is his friend’s father, whom he considered as a rich dad, Robert own father who was well educated, a Ph.D. holder who has completed 4 years Ph.D. course in just 2 years also an education director o his state, his biological father always struggle for money in his last days, and his rich dad who had completed conventional education to only 8th standard was one of the richest men of Miami.

Robert had a great advantage of observing both rich and poor dad life and principles. 

His both dad encourage Robert to get well educated, but the difference is his poor dad always say him to get educated, so e could get a good job, and his rich dad encourages him to acquire knowledge to do business and to become a job giver, not a job seeker.

Robert poor dad always says “do not desire a luxury life or things, because we cannot afford it”, whereas his rich dad says “never say we cannot afford it”, the moment we say we can’t afford a certain thing our brain takes it as a command and stops find way and ideas to afford that thing, always try to find ways and create idea which can take you to a position, where you never have to say that “I can’t afford it”.

We should always understand about financial statement, lots of people especially the middle-class people categorize their financial statement in only income and expenses, but we forget the two of most important part on which rich people mostly focus that is assets and liability, assets are those which makes us money without or putting less amount of work and liabilities are those whose increases expenditures.

A real estate investment, investment in stocks and bonds, investment in creating a business is assets and buying a car or home in a loan is a liability.

Poor people financial statement cycles in between income and expenses, they earn money and spent it on food and other expenses without even thinking of investment, and some middle class people only save and save money until they die and left a good fortune for their families, which is foolishness to a extend, what use of those money by which we can’t even live your desired life, and some middle-class people spent more than they can just to show off, by doing this they get drown in liabilities which increase their monthly expenditure but their income never increase because they only focus on liabilities.

So you must get confused, by thinking “not save to spend then what to do”, saving money in a bank is not a true assets because it doesn’t give you a good return, a house in which you live in is not an assets because it needs money for maintenance but buying a house to give it on rent is an asset because it increases your income.
If your income increases at least 40% from your expenditures you could consider yourself a rich.


Power of Imagination


The imagination of human mind led to some of greatest invention in the history, by imagination we form up ideas, there are two types of imagination synthetic and creative imagination, synthetic imagination is those we get from observing and experiencing different things and creative imagination is our unique form of imagination which never matches with others.

Ideas form by synthetic imagination sometimes gave fruitful result, we can create many things in terms of business by getting inspired from someone else ideas, and we can also calculate the possibilities and risk of the ideas created by synthetic ideas because somebody else is already doing something like that.

By imagination, we form up ideas, which we can shape into real-world businesses and get some fascinating results.

Shallow imagination is of no use, you have to believe what you are thinking; you have to believe in yourself that you could shape up your imagination into ideas your ideas into products and make a business’s out of it.


Persistence is the key to become Rich or successful


A boy who was partially deaf in his childhood, his teacher wrote a note to his mother that her son is stupid and he cannot do anything in his life, so teacher suggests his mother to send him to school again.

His mother replied to the teacher that her son is not stupid and she is going to teach him and he will become successful one day.

After all, this that child had a burning desire to become a successful person and he becomes one by his persistence and burning desire, who later invented the light bulb and the child name is Thomas Alva Edison.


Burn the Boat for Success


Spanish Conqueror Hernan Cortes led an expedition to conquer the land of Aztecs which is now modern-day Mexico, when he arrives at Aztecs Empire in his Boats; he realized that his army was outnumbered by Aztecs soldiers in almost 1:100 ratio, by noticing his soldiers hesitation to fight such a large army he ordered his soldiers to burn their boats, when the boats were burned completely his soldiers knew there is no chance of retreating they have only two option either fight and win or die.

And they fought a furious fight and won.

That is the power of burning the boat, you need to do these within your goals and dreams to program your subconscious mind that there is only one road for survival that is your road to success, cut of the all road of your retreat which making confusion in your mind to run only in the road of your mega success.


Some of the point to remember


Always think positive in life and see the positive side of anything, try to learn from every situation.

Always dream big and start small.

Always focus on learning skills.

Always focus on quality.

Always remain consistent.



Friday, May 10, 2019

How to be Happy


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How to be Happy


If you want to know how to be happy, then absolutely you are not happy, so what is to be happy, happiness is a form of satisfaction and contentment your brain feels when you have the utmost level of clarity and satisfaction in your life.

You are swimming in your vast ocean of thoughts and you know what you want from your life and you are putting enough work that meets your ambition, you are running towards your goal in your ideal speed with the firm belief that it’s going to be a workout, that's satisfying and motivates an individual. 

Human mind always fluctuate it’s feeling it’s impossible to remain in any particular state firmly, so you can’t be happy all the time, you going to experience feeling which going to put you out from your zone of happiness, but you have your works and efforts which you are putting in to get to your goal and achieve what we want in your life, this going to satisfy you and going to remind you each and every time when you are in a door of depression but level of your work never going let you knock on that door.

Always remember you are one of a kind your unique ingredients will surely going to mesmerized world if you cook a good dish from it, but you have to put effort and maintain consistency to get away with your itchy situation itchy situation means, if you have blanket of sack you cannot sleep with it comfortably in winter, you have to figure out how you going to earn money to buy a blanket of fur to have quality sleep so you could work out with pure energy in the next morning.

Life is always not about to stay happy because it’s a situation of mind which going to change in different state, it’s about your worth how you utilize your duration of time in the earth, what impact have you put during your lifetime this thing is going to give you utmost happiness, while you are in a death bed, never , never have a regret in life because it’s the biggest reason for negativity and unhappiness in life, always give a shot to a thing you wanted to have in your life.

And always remember in life you didn’t live alone we have families, friends and we are connected to each other so do our happiness and sadness to maintain that level of satisfaction, maintain their needs and security towards our loved ones if they not going to be happy and safe our goal of remaining in a state of happiness for most of the time in life is not going to accomplished.

Always take care of your flock of sheep of which you are the shepherd of, otherwise, they going to fall from a cliff. That’s your inner circle of satisfaction and as a human being so we have a certain kind of responsibilities towards society.

If we have enough we should share with the people in need, in terms of happiness we always have to think in the long run because of temporary pleasure which we gain by playing games and watching movies is not a happiness, our mind tricked us by this kind of temporary pleasure, mind means our thoughts which we gain throughout of our life, these thoughts got processed and gives us perception, feeling, thinking. 

So we have to be conscious and careful what type of content we consumed because our happiness which also a feeling relies upon our thoughts and this content can trick us in the false road of happiness.

Some points to keep in mind to know How to be Happy.


  •  We are impatient we conclude things very instantly without deeply think about it, observe yourself, observe the nature, how things are systematically put out in a place for us appreciate it.


  • Nobody is listening to others, lack of empathy, We human being are connected to each other never think bad about anybody, because if you harm someone that someone which you think is a different also belongs to the same nature which you belong to, that harm to him eventually going to harm you one day. 

  • If you concern more about more what you don’t have in life, appreciate what you have by seeing others who are less fortunate than you.


  • Help others, it gives you a feeling of a high level of satisfaction, we going to feel more worthy by doing it.

  •  Don’t think too much about past, don’t even think too much about your good moments, this going to make your current moment dull, appreciate the moment you are currently in. Because the chain of your life is in the current moment if you going to connect it to past (good or bad), it going to delay your efforts for future goals, we going to stuck in a leisure zone of thinking and feeling good or bad about past, which may also lead to procrastination.


  • Always put a question mark in your road of happiness think did the thing you are doing really going to give you happiness.
By doing or following the above thing, I believe you can gain a sense of belonging which going to lead you to happiness.
Let me know, what you think of my suggestion on How to be happy if there is any query or topic that you want me to answer or write do email me and comment down below what you think.


How to be happy alone 


In every quest of obtaining something, you have to analyze the circumstance and explain it to yourself.

In the case of being happy alone, you should know why are you alone, you have to analyze why you need to be alone rather it is because of your work or family dispute, by seeing the things clearly, you can take step towards it, if you have your family alive you don’t need to be happy alone in life, go to your family talk and settle down the things, they are your own people don’t shy away to open up in front of them. 

If it’s a matter of broken heart by break up, you are not alone you have your family with you, who love you since you born, you don’t need to be alone and make yourself away from family for that two days chameleon (male or female) guest, you just came to your life to teach, how to change how “chameleons” change color according to the situation.

All these are self-reflection, you always know deep down what matters, what not, but we didn’t understand for some kind of weird phenomenon in our mind, which love to remain in a situation “ I am the victim of blah, blah, blah” we are far strong than those silly things , and we are far worthy then those of things we are here to make a change to be an impact, not to hide on emotion of nest in which , we love to get pampered by other “ we know what’s happening in your life type of friends” they don’t know anything, you know and you are in charge of what is happening in your life.


How to be happy always 


Happiness is not fitness, that by doing the exercise you can remain always happy, it’s a state of mind, and mind is thoughts which always fluctuates according to the situation. 

But a deep consciousness and understanding can help to remain always satisfied by doing the good things and by putting the effort in the things you value, you need to be aware what’s going on your life and why it’s happening to remain content and the path of contentment always ends on happiness.

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